Is it Love?
Sometimes, kita terlanjur stuck ama seseorang yang dulu kita rasa perfect banget, tapi sekarang kita ngerasa so sick about him/her. Apa yang harus kita perbuat dong kalo udah gini?
As simple as it is, semuanya tergantung pada diri kita sendiri dan kemauan kita untuk berkomitmen pada hubungan itu. Kalo kita udah commit akan berusaha sebisa mungkin, trust me, no trouble will come to you! Tapi, lebih banyak orang berpacaran tanpa komitmen yang jelas, hell, even without proper reason kenapa mereka sampai pacaran.
Saran gue, next time you pada mau cari pacar, consider this: Apakah kamu mau pacaran karena you lonely banget? Ato kamu pacaran karena semua best friend kamu udah punya pacar sedang cuma kamu doang yang masi single? Or is it REAL, PURE, LOVE terhadap pasanganmu? Ingat, jangan juga sampai terjerumus kedlam pikiran picik bahwa kalian memang saling cinta padahal mungkin saja ada udang dibalik sepatu… Talk to your friends and ask about their opinions. It’ll do you good, I promise.
It’s all important karena sebuah hubungan yang dimulai pada dasar yang kurang jelas akan membawa bencana dan disaster doang ke muke eloh, dan tentunya akan menyebabkan luka yang dalam pada hati kalian masing2. Not to mention things you might have done yang bisa ngerusak nama baek kalian di masa depan. (Cth. Utk Cewek: Premarital Intercoursing, Utk Cowok: Bersikap kasar ama cewek pasangan kamu…)
"Just think it over and over before you decide. It never hurts to consider every possibility."
June 29th, 2006 at 9:34 pm
“is true, pure love is really exist?”
or with a more basic question, “what is love anyway?”
i didn’t know what’s the answer to these questions…
and i think that to answer these question, it will be a life-time searching and learning ^^;;
but today, may be i can share what i’ve learned till now..
logically, you can’t see love, you can’t smell it or taste it but at least you can FEEL it!
but it’s something more than just an impulsive feeling within your heart, love takes more that just an abstract feeling..
plus that explosive-feeling with : “commitment”,”self-consciouseness”, and “sincerity”
last but not least, test your ‘love’ with the work of ‘time’
real & pure love will be enhanced and renewed by the work of time.
but if as the time flies and your feeling got corrupted, your motivation have gone impured, i won’t say that it’s not true love but… ask your self ‘is this real? or may be not.”
‘just a piece of my thought’
-stef-